The Power of Authenticity in Allyship and Activism

We can’t help but behave authentically when our “backs are against the wall”—when there’s nothing else to do and nowhere else to go. There’s no room for false pretense when we’re in a fight or flight situation. We act as strong as we are. We punch as hard as we can. We run as fast as we’re able. Between the adrenaline coursing through our veins and the lack of anything else to attend to, either mentally or physically, we can apply 100% of our energy to the situation at hand. We are never stronger than in such situations. It's in so-called everyday life that our authenticity is more variable. We might hide our hobbies, religion, or politics when we’re with the work crew. We might conceal our flaws and foibles when trying to impress a new love interest. We might be more polite than we really want to be when we’re around those acquaintances who’ve proven less than trustworthy. Being inauthentic is draining, though. It saps us of our mental energy and inhibits our physical performanc...