Attachment

Okay, the topic of this weekās post was āsupposedā to be loving-kindness ā the last of the four sublime abodes to be addressed in this series. Regular readers will note that during the course of my exploration of the other three (compassion, sympathetic joy, and equanimity) I also delved into their respective near enemies (pity, comparison, and indifference). And so it was that I fully intended to eventually address attachment, the near enemy of loving-kindness (Kornfield, 1993). As I sat down to start writing, however, I immediately realized that attachment really deserves top billing here ā if only by virtue of it being one of the most misunderstood of all Buddhist concepts. Iāve actually spoken with people who have ātried to get into Buddhism but just couldnāt get past the whole non-attachment thing.ā Apparently non-attachment, for many, means living a passionless existence ā devoid of romantic love, deep caring, pleasure, and commitment. So, please bear with me; Iāll be gett...